“I’ll start dating again after I lose 20lbs.”.

I almost dropped my mocha frappaciuno (with extra whip, of course) as I heard that statement come from the table behind me.

As I strained to see the woman out of the corner of my eye, I just knew that I was going to see a woman who was at least my size or slightly larger. (I’m a size 20, btw).

But no, I saw a woman who was probably a size 12 and I all I could wonder was who has sold her the lie that she is too big to be worthy of love.

I wish I could say this was my first time encountering a woman like this but sadly it’s not. In over 10 years of working with women of all body types, I’ve heard similar comments.

But here is the difference, at Bombshell we don’t allow any NEGATIVE conversation about our bodies. Unlike this young ladies friend who allowed her friend to berate herself, we would quickly have interjected.

Learning to love your body the way it is now is the key to unlocking happiness and joy into your life.

When you learn to love what you see in the mirror, your outlook on life changes. Suddenly, you will feel more peace, be less judgmental of others, it eliminates the need to compete and eradicates all other joy killers.

Taking a pole class with us, could be the first step…..

Hope to see you on the dance floor. Sign up!